Rewriting my own website was a daunting prospect; the task seemed immense, how could I possibly capture the essence and subtle victories that often go unnoticed? Yet, this opportunity turned out to be a transformative process, one that encouraged deep self-reflection and a renewed appreciation for the power of my own voice.

When I was first asked to contribute fresh material, my initial reaction was to scrutinise what was already there, picking apart my previous work and wondering if it was worthy of sharing. The tales of others’ grand achievements sometimes made my own progress feel insignificant by comparison.

However, as an arts therapist exploring the long-term effects of self-love, positive self-talk, and the importance of rejecting the negativity or reshaping my outlook, helping me foster a kinder inner dialogue and a more resilient self-image to recognising My Own Value.

I suddenly saw how I had been minimising my own skills and contributions for years. This realization opened the door to embracing my achievements, no matter how small they may seem compared to others. On the Mentorship page, I began to feel a stirring sense of pride in the authors, actors, playwrights, and artists who have benefited from my support and encouragement and publishing them. Seeing their growth reminded me that my contributions do, indeed, matter.
On the Collaborations page, my written book reviews have reached readers in over 200 countries, featured in outlets like eYs magazine, Executive Women’s. Global magazine, and the Australian-based IPL newspaper. What!! hold on.. 200 countries? That correct and tad mind blowing. In the last three months, I’ve mentored four authors into an anthology created by Carol Azam in the USA, all on a voluntary basis, because I wanted them to know their words deserved a voice.

The Awards page brought further revelations. The Wickham-StGeorge Book Cover Awards received entries from as far away as Africa and Belgium, who would have thought that my work could resonate with people so far afield? Rewriting my website gave me a powerful message to share, never undermine yourself or your voice, regardless of your chosen genre or medium. Every contribution matters, and the impact of your work may be seen in places you’ve never imagined. Your influence extends far beyond what you can see, and your unique perspective deserves to shine.

As I look towards 2026, I am determined to embrace this renewed confidence. No more dimming my light to make others comfortable. No more feeling insecure because some may not celebrate my success. And certainly, no more letting others steal the source of my joy and achievement. I will step forward, be proud of my journey, and encourage others to do the same.

If you are reading this and take away nothing else, remember this: YOUR shadow is seen in places you never imagined. Let your light shine, and trust that your voice matters. Every step forward is a win worth celebrating.